Finding the Relationship for You

With Valentine’s Day coming up, I’m going to talk to those of you who are seeking an intimate relationship but are not in one now.  I am going to give you three keys to finding the right relationship for you. The first is growing more whole in yourself.  We have all...

The Best Way to Change Your Partner

What is the best way to change your partner? Why do I ask this question?  Well, after we have been in a relationship for a while, we seem to start wishing that our partners were different in one way or another.  After that great time at the beginning of a relationship...

To Love Another and To Love Oneself

For Valentine’s Day, it is time to talk of love.  What does it mean to love another and how can we better love ourselves? I have heard that love is a decision, that it is a commitment, and it has been called many other things.  But I think love involves a way of...

When a Loved One Dies

Recently, someone I have known for a long time died.  I draw on this experience as well as my knowledge as a therapist to address any similar occasion you may have had. When a loved one dies, many thoughts and feelings arise.  Grief, disbelief, loneliness, regrets,...