For most of us, there are things we would like to have in our lives that we do not. Getting these things takes some effort or a change in how we are doing things.
Whether it is the coming of a New Year, an event in our lives that sparks a desire for change, or simply getting tired of the same old routine, renewal seems to be a part of our human nature.
If that urge for getting something in your life that you do not have has struck, I urge you to “go for it!”
Take a moment to think of something significant that you want in your life that you do not have. What does one do to make it happen? First, you ask, what are the possible actions to create this thing? Once you have brainstormed possible ways to get what you want, there are two main approaches: Create a plan and go step by step to make it happen. Or start experimenting with different possibilities to see what works.
Both of these paths, however, require the decision to go for it. “Go for it” creates the momentum to overcome the inertia of “do nothing.” There is something seductive about living the way things are now. It is easiest. But do you want to stay here? In the old rut? Or do you have the bravery to go for it? It does after all take guts and determination to go for it.
“Go for it” also overcomes the despair of “It hasn’t worked out before.” If it hasn’t worked out before, so what? Go for it again, and see what happens.
“Go for it” also embodies the release of “What might have been…” If you have suffered losses and needed a time to grieve or heal, this is well and good. But there is a time to release what was and go for it again. “Go for it” helps overcome the loss. By going for it, you can see what new horizons life holds.
This is Glenn Stevenson with Self Sense Counseling and Coaching, asking you what you want in your life and encouraging you to go for it. And if you want some help, let me know.