How Are You at Releasing Potential Good?

This month my topic is about letting go of old intentions to do something that no longer serves us. You will learn that it is okay to let go of potential good in our lives for other potential good to come in. There seem to be two types of people. There are those who...

Are You Successful?

Are you successful?  In Western culture, people certainly center on this question.  Indeed, around the world a focus on success has risen to new heights. Whether you define it as financial success, relationship success, success at power and influence, the success of...

It’s Not True That Fear Is

“It’s not true that fear is.”  This is a saying that I invented over 10 years ago to remind myself that I fabricate my fear.  Fear ultimately is an apparition, something groundless, something that does not exist beyond what my mind creates. Fear seems to be all around...

Be Happy Now

A major way that we keep ourselves from happiness is by believing that we need to accomplish a bunch of tasks or achieve a goal before we can be happy.  Life does not have to be this way. The list of things I think I have to do is often a mile long, with things great...

Seeing Yourself As Others See You

A quotation in a little book called Friends No Matter What is attributed to Barbara Billingsly, and it goes like this: My friend, if I could give you one thing, I would wish for you the ability to see yourself as others see you.  Then you would realize what a truly...

It Doesn’t Matter What You Do

Life has a lot to offer when we stay in the right frame of mind.  This is the story of how I came to understand this, and I coined the phrase: It doesn’t matter what you do. It matters how you do it. Pressures in life make us think that we have to do so many things. ...